SETUP · 10 MINUTES · ONE PAGE

Set up your kid’s iPhone.

Strict by default. You only loosen what is too much for you.

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Two things first

  • —The kid’s iPhone is signed in with a child account of your Family Sharing group (Settings → Family).
  • —familydevice is installed on both iPhones (TestFlight invitation). Bluetooth and Wi-Fi are on.

What it looks like

  1. Start screen: This is my iPhone / my kid’s iPhone1
    Pick the role
  2. Kid’s iPhone: allow Screen Time access2
    Screen Time
  3. Kid’s iPhone: set the parent PIN2
    Parent PIN
  4. Both iPhones show the same 6-digit code3
    Compare the code
  5. Kid’s iPhone: check protection4
    Check protection
  6. Parent iPhone: Leo with daily limits and schedules5
    Done

Five steps

  1. 1

    “This is my iPhone”Parent iPhone

    Open the app, tap “This is my iPhone”, enter your name. Allow notifications — that is how your kid’s requests reach you.

  2. 2

    Screen Time and parent PINKid’s iPhone

    Open the app, “This is my kid’s iPhone”, your kid’s name. “Confirm with a parent’s Apple Account” gives the app Screen Time access. Then set a 6-digit parent PIN your kid does not know.

  3. 3

    Pair side by sideBoth

    Parent iPhone: “Add kid’s iPhone”, tap “Leo’s iPhone”. Both iPhones show the same 6-digit code — tap “It matches” on both. From now on everything between your iPhones is end-to-end encrypted.

  4. 4

    Permissions and protectionKid’s iPhone

    Answer the four permissions (location: “Always”). Then set a Screen Time passcode (Settings → Screen Time) and turn on “Ask to Buy” on your iPhone (Settings → Family → child). Once both are ticked, tap “Finish setup”.

  5. 5

    Assign apps, doneParent iPhone

    Tap Leo, tap “Social Media”, “Choose app”, tick the category “Social”. Same for Games (“Games”) and Video (“Entertainment”). Hand the iPhone back.

ACTIVE RIGHT AWAY · NOTHING TO SET UP
Bedtime 21:00–07:00
the whole iPhone, except “Always Allowed”
School Mon–Fri 07:30–14:00
social media, games and video are off
Daily limits
social media 30 min · games 45 min · video 45 min · 2 h in total — at weekends 45 · 90 · 90 · 3 h
Blocked
ads & trackers, malware & phishing, adult websites
Only with you
deleting the app, installing apps, clock, device passcode, Apple Account

Too strict? On your iPhone: tap Leo, tap the rule, change it — two taps. Your kid taps “Request more time” on the block screen; you approve right from the notification.

familydevice.com/en/setup · Questions: hallo@anticipater.com · ANTICIPATER GmbH, Karlsruhe, Germany

VIDEO · 60 SECONDS

The same five steps as a short video.

With narration, to pass on to the other parent. Portrait, plays full screen on the iPhone.